[It's not that she doesn't have the experience necessary to talk on a topic like this-- she does. Good lord, she has it in spades.]
[But it never gets any easier, even for people who have ridden this rodeo more times than they can count.]
... It matters, Tobias. It matters a lot.
As for honoring her... well, that's different for everybody, but me... I try to think about the happy memories. That's probably how most people would rather be remembered. It'll still be sad, but... hopefully it'll feel a little good, too.
[She'd suggest having a stiff drink while doing so, but she can't remember if Tobias is actually legal or not. And as much as SHE didn't give a shit when it came to herself, now that she's technically an 'adult' she'd really rather not encourage kids to break the law.]
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Date: 2016-01-14 04:22 am (UTC)From:[It's not that she doesn't have the experience necessary to talk on a topic like this-- she does. Good lord, she has it in spades.]
[But it never gets any easier, even for people who have ridden this rodeo more times than they can count.]
... It matters, Tobias. It matters a lot.
As for honoring her... well, that's different for everybody, but me... I try to think about the happy memories. That's probably how most people would rather be remembered. It'll still be sad, but... hopefully it'll feel a little good, too.
[She'd suggest having a stiff drink while doing so, but she can't remember if Tobias is actually legal or not. And as much as SHE didn't give a shit when it came to herself, now that she's technically an 'adult' she'd really rather not encourage kids to break the law.]